In this picture, Mary Yarborough gazes out towards the grave of her son (and my brother), Arthur Yarborough, Jr., (August 23, 1960 - April 6, 1984).
Formerly, "Just Thinking", this blog presents the thoughts and experiences of a family historian working to demystify the past and uncover the stories of an elusive ancestry. NC surnames are YARBOROUGH, NEAL, GREEN, HAWKINS, DUNSTON, DAVIS, BROWN, ROSS, HILL, BRYANT, and DAVENPORT in Franklin, Warren, Halifax, and Tyrrell Counties. With so much of my family's history shrouded in darkness, is my personal mission to uncover the hidden details of my ancestry and bring them INTO THE LIGHT.
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
Tombstone Tuesday - My Brother's Grave
Even though this picture features a person, more so than a grave, I felt it appropriate for Tombstone Tuesday, when I ran across it on my memory card just the other day. Everyone who knows me knows that I always have my camera with me, and I randomly snap photos of even the simplest moments. Here, on a ride out a few weeks ago (not the same ride I wrote about for Sentimental Sunday), I took my mom by the cemetery in Hampton where my brother, Arthur, is buried. My mother was very reflective and was noticeably touched to be able to visit her son's grave site, even though she's now unable to get out to walk over to it. This picture tells so much, and reaffirms for me, in yet another instance, that my mother, despite some occasional moments of dementia, is still herself and (as I already know, but others don't seem to), is not only a thinking person, but also one who experiences normal human emotions, whether she expresses them verbally, or not.
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Poignant!
ReplyDeleteHow incredibly moving. That photo says it all. Thank you for sharing it.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely touching photo, you can certainly see an expression of reflection and longing. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThanks Joan, Amy, and Cindy for stopping by and commenting. Your observations are right on point!
ReplyDeleteRenate
On Tombstone Tuesday, this is a perfect reminder of why we have Tombstone Tuesday. Beautiful, Renate.
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